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5 Safe Ways to Discipline a Dog Without Force

 But, many owners simply don’t know the appropriate way to correct their dog and wind up frustrated, stressed, and confused.

So, how do you discipline a Dog without ruining your bond with him? 

Especially a mischief-making puppy!

By the time you finish reading this post, you’ll know exactly what to do to discipline a Dog puppy just like the professionals, and…

What NOT to do!

Disciplining A Dog Puppy

Your Dog is a quick learner… with the right teacher.

To discipline a Dog, first, create an environment that sets them up for success by making sure the area is dog-proof. If your dog has unwanted nipping and biting or destructive chewing, redirect the bad behavior by distracting your puppy and offering them a more interesting chew toy. Focus on positive reinforcement by rewarding good behaviors with treats, toys, play, or praise and affection. If redirecting them doesn’t work, consider a short time-out to calm them down. 

Never use physical punishment, yelling, or leave your puppy in an environment where they can get into trouble without supervision.

When disciplining a Dog, punishment has been shown to instill fear and distrust in your puppy (source).

It breaks down the attachment and bond you have built with him. 

When there are so many positive options to discipline your Dog, why resort to old-school techniques of harsh punishments, yelling or reprimanding? 

Instead, here are the most effective tips on how to discipline a Dog, even puppies.

Helpful Tips on How to Discipline a Dog

Use these tips, and the step-by-step guide below, to learn the right way to correct your dog.
  • Use distractions when your Dog is in the middle of a bad behavior
  • Redirect their attention to a more desirable behavior
  • Reward positive behavior with treats, affection, games, or playtime
  • Use short, but effective, calming timeouts 
  • Ignore behavior that is demanding, for example, excessive barking, jumping, or pawing 
  • Never use physical punishment, fear, yelling, or intimidate your Dog
  • Don’t rub your Dog’s nose in his accidents
  • Don’t encourage your Dogs bad behavior by laughing or giggling at their antics
  • Don’t punish unwanted behavior after-the-fact

If you want to learn how to discipline your Dog then this guide is exactly what you need. Especially if you want to know how to keep a strong bond with your companion.

Are you making mistakes by punishing your Dog inappropriately?

Do you know the most important times when disciplining your Dog puppy is most effective?

Read on to find out.

Three Key Times When Disciplining Your Dog Puppy is Most Successful

Focus on Step 1: Prevention to set your Dog up for success.

Using the wrong methods of punishing your Dog can make matters dangerously more serious. But, knowing the two key times when disciplining your Dog is most successful will give you a headstart to stop behavior problems from worsening.

The 3 key times when disciplining your Dog is most successful

  1. When you introduce your Dog to your home and set up the environment to prevent bad behavior from occurring.
  2. During the early training when your dog is still a puppy and learning is the most important and quickest.
  3. As your Dog is in the act of the unwanted behavior and you react appropriately to discipline them.

Let’s take a quick look at how these 3 times produce the most success when disciplining your Dog puppy.

Preventing Bad Behaviors 

There are several ways you can prevent unwanted behaviors using the prevention method.

Prevention is the best strategy for managing your dog’s behavior.

But some owners tend to blame their dog for their bad behavior when, in fact, the environment set up by the owner leaves the puppy or adult to get into trouble easily. 

Let’s take a look at these common examples of bad behaviors, and what you could do to prevent them in the first place.

  • Your puppy chews all the couch cushions. Why not place your puppy in a safe room with a partition gate?
  • You know your Dog likes to chew your expensive shoes. Do you have chew toys that are enticing to him and keep them nearby?
  • Your dog soils on the carpet when you’re not looking. Have you thought about keeping your puppy tethered to you to watch him closely?

Many times, when you think your Dog needs discipline, what he actually needs is an environment that sets them up for success, instead of punishment and failure.

Look around your house and consider how you can make your space safer for your Dog. Avoiding punishment and discipline is a proactive step in the right direction.

Early positive training

The next step is early positive training for your Dog.

When your Dog puppy comes to you at around 8 weeks old you have a clean slate to train your dog. During these early years, it’s crucial to teach your dog what the rules of the house are — including behavior that is acceptable and unacceptable.

Your Dog is learning the foundation behaviors and training for their future life with you. Now is the time to:

  • Reinforce good behaviors
  • Show your puppy alternative, acceptable behaviors
  • Provide the basic foundation for their Dog obedience skills

At this early stage of life, it’s also essential to engage your Dog’s mind. You can do this through many methods, but the safest and most helpful to their future are:

  • Life-changing Dog enrichment
  • How to keep your Dog entertained (and out of trouble)
  • Fun mind games for Dogs

Don’t overlook your dog’s early training for their future foundation with you. Brain training your Dog’s mind can teach them early skills to problem-solve and make better choices.

All while keeping them entertained and out of trouble!

Caught in the act

Catching your Dog puppy in the act of unwanted behavior is key to effective discipline.

Catching your Dog puppy while in the act of committing an unwanted behavior and your following actions are pivotal to establishing your expectations and leadership.

When this happens, do NOT yell “NO!” at them.

Instead, use the actions outlined below which can save you stress and teach you to communicate with your puppy more fairly. The discipline and correction you make while your Dog pup is caught in the act help your dog relate the unwanted behavior to a positive behavior that you show them.

Missing the moment

Discipline must occur immediately during or after the unwanted or bad behavior.

Discipling a Dog must happen in the moment of their behavior or shortly thereafter. 


Because your dog only has about a 2-minute short-term memory (source).

But, don’t worry. Your dog’s long-term memory of the commands you teach them is much longer. When the information is valuable enough to help them survive, your dog has the ability to remember it for a much longer time. 

Your Dog’s memory can remember past complex events involving you, even if longer than 2 minutes ago using their associated memories. This means they can remember connections between their behavior, the commands you give, and the situation where it occurred (source).

Yet, discipline must occur while your dog is doing the behavior in order to be most beneficial for your Dog (source).

Trustworthy Leader vs. Being the Alpha

You don’t need to dominate your dog to be an effective leader.

Dogs are highly intelligent and very receptive to training. But they can also seem stubborn or assertive as they grow into adolescents. 

While some people will tell you to “establish yourself as the alpha” this is far from what the facts of science tell you to do!

Do NOT think you need to show your Dog you’re boss by dominating him. 

It’s a fact that…

If you’re aggressive, your dog will be too.


In a year-long study of dog owners who used confrontation or aversive methods to train their aggressive pets, veterinary researchers found that most of these animals continued to be aggressive…

Unless their training techniques changed.

“Alpha Theory” doesn’t work for Dogs. 

What does work, then?

Developing a strong bond, being consistent, and maintaining reachable expectations.

Here’s how you can learn to control a Dog the right way — without “being the alpha” and ruining your relationship.

Does your Dog act out on purpose?

Your Dog isn’t acting out to make you mad.

Dogs do not act out on purpose to make you mad or spite you. While some people may tell you there are times when your dog consciously or subconsciously acts out on purpose with their poor behavior, this is untrue. This idea can lead to the wrong type of discipline or incorrect punishment and break your good communication with your dog. 

Your Dog’s motives

Your Dog has only one motive: they do what works for them.

Your Dog actually has only one motive, proven by science:

Dogs do what works for them.

So, they don’t:

  • Think about how to get back at you for a previous reprimand
  • Misbehave to spite you
  • Show bad behavior with any type of ulterior motive towards you

Here is what you need to know about your Dog’s mind and its behavior.

These two foundations in dog training will help you discipline your puppy more easily:

  • Behaviors that are rewarded get repeated
  • Behaviors that are ignored get extinguished

Any trainer who thinks your dog has a vendetta against you should be a red flag for you to run away quickly! There is no such evidence of this. 

In fact…

Dogs are simply not trying to take over the pack or be in charge. Dogs are learning how to interact by assessing what works and what doesn’t with each interaction. 


Don’t get caught up in believing your Dog is misbehaving just to spite you. They aren’t.

How to Discipline a Dog in 5 Easy Steps

Start at the foundation of discipline, prevention, and work your way up as necessary to discipline your Dog.

There is a 5-step solution to disciplining your Dog puppy that isn’t difficult to apply but does take patience and consistency. The secret to a well-behaved dog is making good behaviors worthwhile to him. This means the good behavior needs to be more enticing than participating in any bad behaviors. You can do this through a positive interruption, redirection, beneficial behavior reward, timeouts, and ignoring attention-seeking.

Disciplining a Dog is a simple process 

  1. Positive interruption of their unwanted behavior.
  2. Redirecting them to more appropriate behavior.
  3. Rewarding them for choosing the beneficial behavior.
  4. Using short timeouts, only if the previous steps don’t work.
  5. Ignoring attention-seeking behavior to help extinguish it.

When possible focus on the first three steps of discipline: interruption, redirection, and rewards.

The last two steps, timeouts and ignoring the behavior, are for the occasions that lesser forms of discipline aren’t effective.

Owners who are able to observe their Dogs and understand them are more likely to have dogs that need less discipline than owners who only think of themselves and what their Dog should do for them.

Let’s focus on working through the process of knowing how to discipline a Dog the right way.

1. Give a positive interruption cue to stop the behavior.

Don’t scare your puppy to interrupt them. Simply use an interesting sound or words to get their attention off the bad behavior.

The first step when your Dog is behaving badly is to use a positive interruption. What this means is that you’ll make a noise that gets their attention to look at you, but not a noise that scares them. 

I suggest using the words “pop, pop” or “tick, tick” said in an upbeat tone. These words are very neutral and can be said quickly to gain your puppy’s attention. 

You may choose to use a different word as your positive interruption cue, but if your dog looks scared then either say the word more upbeat or choose another word. You’re not trying to scare your dog to stop the behavior because that’s how you’ll ruin your bond and cause them anxiety.

Instead, you need to get their attention quickly so they stop the bad behavior.

Now, move on to the next step in the discipline process.

2. Redirect their attention to a behavior you want.

Show your puppy what behavior you WANT them to do instead.

Now, here’s where you need to think more like your Dog! 

What does your Dog find more enticing and valuable than the bad behavior? 

It’s got to be really interesting and fun for them to want to stop and come investigate what you’re offering. I suggest tasty food chews or a squeaky toy to really grab their curiosity!

Try different chews, treats, and toys out to see how your dog responds. And remember to keep these items on you in your pocket or nearby to offer them a positive alternative.

Especially when they’re in the puppy stage!

And, it’s never too early to begin training your Dog to leave things alone.

Now, you come to the good stuff…

3. Reward them for making the right choice.

Food is generally a great reward for many Dogs.

Okay, here’s what helps to solidify the wanted behavior you choose…

The reward! ⭐

Once you’ve shown them what they’re missing out on in the previous step and they decide it’s worth their effort to investigate it, give it to them as their reward.

Now, you might be thinking, “But how is that going to help discipline my Dog?”

Well, remember when I told you the basics of how dogs think?

And that dogs will continue to repeat behaviors that are rewarded?

As your puppy catches on to your redirects and the reward, they slowly begin to learn they get something that’s better than the unwanted behavior. And, you get to look like a fair leader who has their best interest at heart…

Strengthening your bond with them! 💗

Choose a healthy treat for your Dog to keep them fit and strong.

There might be times when your puppy is just out of control and wild. For those times, a short time-out might be in order.

What are examples of things that can be used for positive reinforcement?

To increase a Dog’s behavior we need to apply reinforcement. This means something that your dog, in particular, finds reinforcing.

Ideas of positive reinforcement

  • Treats
  • Games 
  • Play with you or his dog friends
  • Praise
  • Petting

Most importantly…

Your dog has to find the positive reinforcement motivation enough to reinforce their wanted behaviors.

4. Apply a short, but effective timeout if they continue acting out.

Timeout isn’t meant to stress your dog — it’s a helpful tool to calm them down when used correctly.

A timeout is your last resort for disciplining your Dog. It’s not meant to be used daily.

If you find yourself placing your puppy into timeout more than a few times a week, then consider if you’re meeting your puppy’s basic needs. Chances are, you probably need to engage with your dog more and grow your bond with your Dog

Once you’ve gone through the first 3 steps at least 2 times, a timeout may be used.

How to use a timeout

  • Have a safe area already set up for your puppy where there are no toys or things they can get into or tear. 
  • Use a pet-safe partition gate to cordon off the doorway or puppy-safe zone.
  • DO NOT close the door as this will give your dog anxiety and fear. Dogs need to see you at almost all times.
  • Set a timer for only 1 to 2 minutes, no more.
  • Once your dog is not whining and has its timeout, let them out calmly and without a big fuss to join you again.

If your puppy is whining during the timeout, wait until at least 3 seconds for them to stay quiet before releasing them. This might not sound like a long time, but to a young puppy, it’s stressful to be kept away from you.

Count to 3 in your head once they’re not whining.

Then, slowly release them without fuss.

5. Ignoring behaviors that you want to stop.

Some behaviors that are demanding your attention can be ignored to stop them.

Some unwanted behaviors should be ignored.

These are behaviors that are self-reinforcing, such as:

  • Barking to go outside, called demand barking
  • Pawing you for attention
  • Jumping up on you for petting or cuddles

You can choose to ignore these behaviors to help lessen or extinguish them. Your Dog naturally stops demanding behaviors that aren’t rewarded. 

This means that, together with positively reinforcing good behaviors, ignoring the bad behaviors helps give you the best system to discipline a Dog puppy. 

Even if you were to tell your dog “no” or “stop” while he’s pawing you this is still considered attention. Albeit, negative attention, but nonetheless attention! 

And, that’s exactly what your Dog wants! 

Instead, turn your body away from the pawing each time they attempt to paw. Or, get up quietly, without saying a word, and move to another area. 

Ignore is a powerful statement from a leader.

Discipline Problems and Solutions

Here’s a visual checklist for using the proper discipline.

This is an example of what to do to discipline your Dog for some common bad behaviors.

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Use the table to see what your steps are to help train your puppy the right way.

Chewing the wrong thingxxxx
Attention-seeking barkingx
Pawing you for your attentionx
Potty accidentxxx
Nipping and biting during playxxxxx
Jumping on visitorsxxxx
Use a checklist, like this, to help decide how to discipline your Dog the right way. Please scroll left/right to see the full table.

Knowing what to do to help your dog with misbehavior is half the battle. The other half is knowing what NOT to do so you don’t make the situation worse.

What NOT to Do When Disciplining a Dog 

Don’t use these techniques to correct your Dog.

Now that you know exactly how to discipline your Dog puppy, here’s a list of what not to do.

Are you making any of these disciplining mistakes?

Do not use negative reinforcement

Negative reinforcement is causing discomfort or worse, pain, to your dog to get them to perform a behavior. One regularly overlooked example is pushing your dog’s bottom to the ground and only releasing them when they sit as you want. 

Other common negative reinforcers include a choke chain and prong collar. Negative reinforcement is about turning off something negative, or uncomfortable, at the least, and painful at the worst.

But take note…

Negative reinforcement has been scientifically shown to lead to an increased risk of aggression of 2.9 times for aggression towards family members and a further 2.2 times towards unfamiliar people (source). 🚨

So, hands-off when training or disciplining your Dog. 

Instead, use lure and reward Dog puppy training

Do not use physical correction

Just as when using negative reinforcement, physical corrections cause your dog anxiety and fear and lead to aggression. 

When you got your dog you wanted him for life as your best friend and companion. Physical punishment hurts your dog and isn’t in either of your best interest. 

If you find yourself about to engage in physical force for punishment with your Dog, step away from your dog immediately. Ask someone for help. Call a friend or family member and tell them you need help with your dog. 

Even withholding food, water, or shelter is cruel and must be avoided. Punishment doesn’t achieve the results you want. It’s a sign of not knowing what to do.

But, this guide has provided you with plenty of options to discipline your dog and there are tons of articles you can find to help with keeping your Dog entertained if he’s stressing you out.

If you find you can’t handle your dog, then reach out to dog trainers and dog behaviorists in your area quickly. 

Don’t yell at or demean your dog

Yelling only serves to scare your dog into submission out of fear of punishment. Your dog’s ear is uniquely tuned to your voice and they can hear the difference in your pitch and tone (source).

You don’t need to yell in order to get them to hear you. And demeaning them by calling them names and speaking to them in a critical tone can cause fear and aggression in Dogs.

Not to mention, your continued shouting could stress your dog to the point they shut down and withdraw from you. They will no longer be the sweet, lively dog you dreamed about. 

Instead, learn how to use your voice to communicate effectively with your Dog. Keep your voice calm, clear, and confident. 

Don’t push your dog’s face in his accidents

Some people still hold on to the old dominance theory idea that pushing a dog’s face into his potty accident will teach him to relieve himself indoors. Unfortunately, this type of training only makes his house training take longer since he begins to fear going potty anywhere. 

So, instead, he begins to sneak off and hide to potty indoors to avoid punishment. And, he fears pottying in front of you even outdoors since he thinks he’ll receive a harsh correction.

Don’t let this scenario be you!

Preferably, always have your puppy tethered to you when potty training, never letting them out of your sight. When not tethered to you, place them in a puppy-proof area to prevent potty accidents.

Remember, the most effective stage of discipline is PREVENTION. This means creating an environment where accidents are less likely or WON’T be able to happen due to your constant care and watch.

Reward your Dog when they potty outdoors in the area you want with praise and treats. Learn more about how to quickly potty train a Dog to start off on the right steps to house training.

Don’t unintentionally encourage bad behaviors

Sometimes, Dogs can do the cutest things! 

While it’s fine to have giggles and laughter with your Dog, it’s not okay if it happens during an unwanted behavior. If your puppy is chewing your expensive new shoes and you laugh or speak cutely to them you’ll have a harder time stopping his chewing other, even more precious, objects.

Or, what about when your tiny puppy sinks his little teeth into your hand in play and you laugh out loud?

Once he becomes bigger and stronger it won’t be funny!

If you frequently laugh when your puppy is in the act of bad behaviors then they come to expect you’ll find it amusing or funny and okay for them to continue to do.

The better option is to redirect your cute puppy to chew on the right things — bones or chew toys that don’t cost a fortune. 

Are you missing out on the right toys to redirect your Dog’s chewing?

Why does your Dog misbehave?

Take a look. Do you notice anything you might be neglecting for your dog’s daily care and training?

There are a few common factors in dogs that cause them to misbehave.

Even if you think your dog is trained and should know better, these are the top reasons they might have bad behaviors.

  • Separation anxiety
  • Underexercised (lack of meeting basic needs)
  • Inconsistent discipline
  • Improper training (but you think they “know” what to do or not do)
  • Not mentally stimulated (boredom)

Let’s briefly cover these issues so that you can help change them. 

Separation anxiety

If you spend a lot of time with your puppy, then begin to leave him alone for long hours he may start to misbehave. This is especially true if you are busy and tend to leave him in a crate for far too many hours.

If you’re returning to work after working from home, then you’ll need to gradually work up to the amount of time your puppy can be left alone. Don’t just leave for work all day and expect your Dog to be fine. 

He’ll most likely get into trouble as he seeks to soothe himself from your absence. This could mean chewing inappropriate things, digging, or even excessive barking and howling. 

Under exercised

An under-exercised dog is not getting his basic needs met. Dogs must have at least 2 hours of physical exercise per day. 

This doesn’t include their mental stimulation, brain games, and teaching them a job to provide work for them around the house. (See – Fun Jobs for Dogs at Home for more ideas) 

Before you leave the house give your dog a long walk with plenty of time to sniff. This helps to calm their energy and allow them time to rest while you’re out of the house.

Inconsistent Discipline

Another leading cause of needing to discipline a Dog is a lack of consistent training and discipline techniques. This means that sometimes you may discipline your Dog for chewing, while other times you laugh and think it’s cute.

Do you make sure your puppy always has 4 paws on the floor to greet guests? 

Or, do your guests encourage your dog to jump and lick them because it’s fun for them?

This is a confusing discipline technique for your puppy — sometimes they can get away with behavior and other times they can’t. 

Stick to the rules of discipline and training and you’ll have quicker success training your Dog.

Improper training

If you haven’t spent time training your Dog the right way, then you probably think they “know” what to do.

In actuality, you haven’t spent enough time using the 3 D’s of dog training. 

These 3 D’s are:

  • Duration
  • Distance
  • Distractions

You need to make sure your dog actually understands that “come” when called means wherever you are, and not just at home in a distraction-free area.

Be sure to find out more about the 3 D’s of dog training in this post on teaching your Dog their basic obedience commands 🐶

Not mentally stimulated

Is your Dog getting at least 5 to 15 minutes a day of mental stimulation and brain training?

While many owners remember to obedience train their dog they overlook the importance of mentally stimulating games to reduce boredom. 

Decreasing boredom is shown to give your dog a more enjoyable day, which lessens their desire to participate in unwanted behaviors, such as chewing and digging. Start with a few minutes a day using mind games to help keep their mental health in check.

Use these engaging puzzle games for a Dog to get started with your dog’s brain training 💡

Make sure you’re meeting the varied activities that your dog needs in order to thrive and live happily with you.

Need more help disciplining your Dog the right way?

Do you wish there was a Dog monthly guidebook? There is!

Disciplining your Dog puppy is most effective when you focus on teaching your Dog what to do, rather than punishing him for unwanted behaviors.

It’s important to know the difference between punishment and discipline (a.k.a. corrections) in order to maintain your bond with your Dog. The wrong type of punishment can cause irreparable harm to your companion, but discipline when used properly actually reinforces positive behavior. ✅

Know what to expect

Common training issues such as jumping, barking, and housetraining can be managed by controlling the environment and reinforcing acceptable responses.

Using discipline to train your Dog doesn’t have to be unpredictable and stressful.

But wouldn’t it be a relief to know what to expect next with your new puppy?

It is, with a helpful guide called Your Dog Month-by-Month that won’t leave you in the dark with your dog’s unpredictable antics. 📘📙

Owners that focus on positive reinforcement strategies using clear and predictable interactions are rewarded by a Dog that is not only an enjoyable member of the family but…

A bonded companion for life! 💗

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